Vignesh...

Ganesh time; Once i asked my friend to accompany me to Siddivinayak temple and outright rejected; but the same person returned stating let's go to Lalbaugch Ka Raja Pandal other day. I was surprised to find this anomaly. God is god, whether he is in Siddivinayak temple or in the pandel. Why there is such digress sentiment. I couldn't resist my curiousity and promptly asked; why a sadist like you have a volta-face; There the truth reveals; Lalbaugch has divine powers which are fulfilled if you visit the Pandal. Though it sounds like hypocrisy, I analyzed this as no difference from our routine decisions and attitude towards eco space.
Other day, I had been to a B'day party of my colleague's daughter. He has thrown a lavish party; Event Managers who are paid to engage the kids, found them stealing the party show. Earlier people thought throwing a party in a great hotel is kind of gracing the occassion in big bang; but now list of activities that Event manager will do, fetches the attention of great was the party. Foodies, if you are not a entertainer, you may like such parties are overkill for you.
Snob value is something that everybody experiences in a different format everyday. Why people are so concerned about their dislikes vs likes of others. Getting adjusted to family tantrums, BeSpoke at Office, Nice to everyone, Pleasent all times; Bit a LOT masking to carry split personalities everytime. Isn't that we need to overcome such personalities; which personalities weighs more %, we reflect the emotion and behaviour on the day. Joy, Sad, happy, cheerful, sorrow, are different states of mind that reflects a being state of mind.
Famous say that, what you got when you taken birth that you will carry when you die. Nothing; so why so much unrest in life for some gains which success/happiness is temporary. Can't we be a success person throughout our life. Why everyday we begin with un-certainty, thinking of what next, crying foul of certain things not achieveable, Reaching heights with dismal foundation/framework, Cheating own day - in - day -out. Is it life full of challenges and eternal Ganesh being worshopping for well being and clear the messy of life to lead a happy time.
Than what did my Colleague at LalBaug will wish. Give everything in life; Life of King Times ;=), Won't a shanty slum dweller will ask the same. Will god differentiate the aroma of personal traits when accepting the wishes.
From childhood, I have seen Ganesha puja as a day of No studies, move around to see pandals, eat prasadams, get blessings from priest for "All Pass", See orchestra / melodies and never wished anything which will make me BIG, Is it something I should have been done to find myself completely different. Barring all challenges in the name of Ganesha "Vigneshwara", or connecting with soul for doing all right things in life "Siddi Vinayaka". Truth to yourself, Help others, Don't expect in return, Back foot pride, ego, selfish, Accept comments to take it consutrctive way, Happy to be one with everyone. Does it require too much salvation or this is something which is not acceptable in growing concern society. If that so, why double standards when we land at God's place. Possibly in Kali Yug, that's what God want and people like us to perceive. Rest to your speculation.